There is an equal contribution of men and women to lead a happy and satisfied marital life. In the marital life, both the partners should have equal feelings and interests. It should not be like male partner has good desire and the female is not willing to do so.
There are some secluded things between the couple that know one knows unless they reveal. It’s fine to hide a few things, maybe financial or future plans, but medical things should be hidden. They must be taken into the attention of a certified practitioner.
For instance, a female has some physical challenges during the drive which may be dyspareunia, vaginismus, or no desire/no lubrication. These conditions will leave her male partner in a desperate state where he cannot share this pathetic experience with anyone except with a couple therapist or sex therapist.